2016-10-06

Can I have different roles with different friends, and what different friendship roles can I have?

Hello

Can I have different roles with different friends, and what different friendship roles can I have?

I've thought a lot about this. For it is very different what kind of role I have and when I'm with different friends.

Greeting

Macus


Hi Marcus

What kind of friend are you? And what does that say about you? And these five roles are common in friendships.


The organizer

Planner who keeps track of birthdays, buying gifts, and juggle thousands of little practical details.

If you have this role ...
So you're probably Talented Annika in many contexts and can quite often have chosen the role because you need confirmation from others.

If you tire of the role you will be prepared to miss out on the group's immediate estimate, and the most important thing you can in that case have to do is to learn to be a little more passive.

Little sister

With childlike charm and a certain amount of confusion avoids effectively be the one who takes responsibility.

If you have this role ...
So, it is a subtle matter, you do not have to take responsibility, but will still always be with. In the long run, this is probably still a role that becomes boring. It is one thing to have this role when one is 17 and the youngest in the office. It's not as fun when the 42nd

The entertainer

Constantly a laugh ready, always a pinch of irony in his hand salting of everyday life. The Entertainer is expected to be the one who can always amuse us.

If you have this role ...
Then you have the "job" to ensure that it does not become too tense in the group by diverting attention from the conflict into something playful. Are you even have a little afraid of conflict?

To constantly have this role can ultimately also be perceived as a bit frivolous, because you so rarely show up serious.

The therapist

Listen, lend his shoulder and says, wise, warm things so that the rest of us feel a little better.

If you have this role ...
So are you a person who sees it as important to be caring and helping others. The risk is just that you forget yourself on the road ...

The diplomat

This is a very popular member of the group, with major talents to intercept conflict and to intervene and mediate.

If you have this role ...
So you are often a first-children who have developed a habit in tough negotiations. In the long run, it is a role that has sapped your strength, right here to constantly adapt mediation strategy and not freely express their own opinions. It can make you feel a little fake as a person.

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